
“The wedding was an unparalleled success among the Lower Orders”
The picture is by EW himself.
“The wedding was an unparalleled success among the Lower Orders”
The picture is by EW himself.
10:38am Thursday 15th March 2007
By Chris Gray
As the Oxford Literary Festival gets under way next week at Christ Church, visitors to the city may find themselves looking for restaurants and bars with suitable connections where they can relax and eat during the event. They would do well to try The Oxford Retreat, in Hythe Bridge Street. This handsome pub could boast - if it knew of it - an interesting link with Evelyn Waugh, whose celebration of Oxford in Brideshead Revisited remains one of the most potent, if misleading, pictures of the city and university.
During Waugh’s misspent days as a prep-school master - after he left Oxford and before he made his name as a novelist with Decline and Fall - he was a regular patron of what was then the Nag’s Head. (He may, indeed, have been one while he was a student, although this is not recorded.) His diaries make three specific references to the place, which back in the 1920s, I suppose, was new (or old and awaiting demolition?).
The first is in an entry for September 15, 1924, in which he writes: “We spent the evening saying goodbye to everyone at the Nag’s Head.” The next day he is back, after a “disgusting” dinner at the George where, in order “to make things less disagreeable a friend had insisted on arranging with the waitress to lie with her after the meal”. He continues: “Even the pubs were not comforting because, since we had made so many farewells, we could hardly return to the Nag’s Head and were forced to go to the Paviours Arms actually Pavier’s, an old Oxford Times favourite in St Ebbe’s.”
Then, on November 12 of the same year he writes: “I went on to the Nag’s Head where I had arranged to meet Lord Elmley. Claud Cockburn turned up there with mad Yorke- Lodge and a beastly man in an eye glass, all very drunk. When we were turned out we went to see Mrs Heritage and then to the old Hypocrites’ rooms for the drinking of whisky … after about this stage of the evening my recollections become somewhat blurred.”
It would be good to think that today’s generation of undergraduates - who appear to be making a beeline for the sprauncily renovated place - are maintaining the same standards of fun. I rather doubt it, however.
After a somewhat dismal period (latterly at any rate) as the Antiquity Hall, the Oxford Retreat is now very much a place to see and be seen in following a smart revamp by its young owners Rachel and Stuart, who reopened it in November. They have the services of a charismatic manager in Andrew Webster (Webster’, as he likes to be called) and an excellent chef in Mark Harris. All are old muckers, I understand, from Marlborough - the town not the college.
I have so far patronised the pub three times: the first as a meeting place for a large group of friends before dinner at the nearby Sojo restaurant; the second for a t
Paula Byrne’s Mad World
The weeks went by; we looked for lodgings for the coming term and found them in Merton Street, a secluded, expensive little house near the tennis court.
Tamara Abelson (later Talbot Rice), a White Russian exile, who knew EW at Oxford where she was one of the rare undergraduettes.
[via Paula Byrne’s Mad World]
Paula Byrne’s Mad World
Yes, there are a lot more Byrne quotes coming - I did warn you when I started reading. :-)
Paula Byrne’s Mad World
Bridey, too, was in Magdalene. But did he ever say he disliked or even detested hunting?
Byrne, however, mentions that
such [as the Hypocrites] clubs were necessary because undergraduates were banned from going into city’s pubs, for fear of town versus gown fistcuffs or liaisons with undesireable women.
Although the story was never republished, we can find out a little about it in Paula Byrne’s Mad World:
[Evelyn Waugh] wrote a story for the third number [of Oxford Broom, the magazine edited by Harold Acton], which was published in June 1923. Entitled ‘Anthony, who sought things that were lost’, it concerns a beautiful young aristocrat, ‘born of a proud family’, who ‘seemed always to be seeking in the future for what had gone before’. He was perhaps the first fictional draft for the Sebastian type, created exactly at the time when Evelyn was beginning to be drawn to Hugh and his kind.
It has certain misprints such as “My Loveday’s Little Outing and Other Sad Stories” instead of “Mr Loveday’s”.
Paula Byrne’s Mad World
At least three quotes come to mind, the first two of them involving cousin Jasper.
Gay For Today celebrates the incredible variety, contribution and existence of gay men throughout our culture and recent history.
There are entries about Willian and Hugh Lygon, Brian Howard, Harold Acton, and, naturally, Stephen Tennant.
In his letters Evelyn Waugh wrote that his friends of the first two terms were
a gloomy scholar from some Grammar school who talked nothing, some aristocratic men who talked winter sports and motor cars.
[via Paula Byrne’s Mad World]
writing about her good friend Evelyn Waugh:
I’m making such a lot of money with articles…so I’m saving it up to be married but Evelyn [Waugh] says don’t save it, dress better and catch a better man. Evelyn is always so full of sound common sense. The family have read Vile Bodies and I’m not allowed to know him, so right I think…
in a letter from Rutland Gate Mews, 30th March, 1930 as quoted in Nancy Mitford by Harold Acton.
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This is Princess X, perhaps the most shocking sculpture by Brancusi.
Now as you know I have two sculptures by Brancusi and several pretty things and I did not want them to start getting rough…